Yeah I go to a hafla up here in westminster at the end of every month, you should try and make one, next one is on June 24th, you can join the meet up for free and come when you can, it fun and you will meet some great women there, here is a link to my group http://www.meetup.com/The-Westminster-Bellydance-Meetup-Group/ let me know what you think, plus I am sending you a friend request on here :)