Moon
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Ok, here's my problem:
Just before the lesson, 2 fellow students that are best friends told me they are going pro. They are going to work together with a company (I forgot to ask what kind of company) and they're going to perform on parties (I forgot to ask what kind of parties).
The problem is, those students don't know how to dance. I don't want to sound rude or arrogant and I'm also not claiming that I'm a fantastic dancer myself, but if I look around in class (we're dancing little over a year now) I can see at least 90% of the people there dances better then them. They hardly have a feeling for rhythm, they can't seperate dance styles yet and if you ask me I think they don't know much about the music and background of the dance, I guess they think looking good in a sexy costume is what counts the most. I know for a while now that they are very looks-focused persons, but I always thought they also knew they are not the best dancers yet. Now, I have little respect for them left.
When they told me this, I was alone with them in the dressing room and all I could think was :shok: but instead I said something like, "that's cool, congratulations!", while my mind was screaming You Are Not Good Enough!!!.
I guess I was affraid that I would sound rude or jealous if I would tell them what I was thinking. I hope you don't understand me wrong, I wouldn't even want to go pro at this moment, because I feel I have way way more to learn before I could call myself a professional.
But now I'm so worried... they didn't say anything about it during the lesson but afterwards they were in the dressing room much later then the rest of us and I guess they talked to the teacher. I really want to know what the teacher said to them, because I like her very much, but I'm affraid she might support them while I feel she should at least warn students that are overestimating themselves.
I really want to talk to my teacher in private about how she handles students like these, but I'm affraid I'll look like some jealous gossip.
I'm desperate. I know people like these can't be really stopped, but the world is in danger of being enriched with another pair of incompetent "bellydancers" that give our art form a bad name.
I was hoping someone could give me some adviced how I could best talk about it with my teacher?
Just before the lesson, 2 fellow students that are best friends told me they are going pro. They are going to work together with a company (I forgot to ask what kind of company) and they're going to perform on parties (I forgot to ask what kind of parties).
The problem is, those students don't know how to dance. I don't want to sound rude or arrogant and I'm also not claiming that I'm a fantastic dancer myself, but if I look around in class (we're dancing little over a year now) I can see at least 90% of the people there dances better then them. They hardly have a feeling for rhythm, they can't seperate dance styles yet and if you ask me I think they don't know much about the music and background of the dance, I guess they think looking good in a sexy costume is what counts the most. I know for a while now that they are very looks-focused persons, but I always thought they also knew they are not the best dancers yet. Now, I have little respect for them left.
When they told me this, I was alone with them in the dressing room and all I could think was :shok: but instead I said something like, "that's cool, congratulations!", while my mind was screaming You Are Not Good Enough!!!.
I guess I was affraid that I would sound rude or jealous if I would tell them what I was thinking. I hope you don't understand me wrong, I wouldn't even want to go pro at this moment, because I feel I have way way more to learn before I could call myself a professional.
But now I'm so worried... they didn't say anything about it during the lesson but afterwards they were in the dressing room much later then the rest of us and I guess they talked to the teacher. I really want to know what the teacher said to them, because I like her very much, but I'm affraid she might support them while I feel she should at least warn students that are overestimating themselves.
I really want to talk to my teacher in private about how she handles students like these, but I'm affraid I'll look like some jealous gossip.
I'm desperate. I know people like these can't be really stopped, but the world is in danger of being enriched with another pair of incompetent "bellydancers" that give our art form a bad name.
I was hoping someone could give me some adviced how I could best talk about it with my teacher?