lizaj
New member
I know I made a throw away remarkable but I was actually involved in sexual education at a High School. From that expericence we often do not teach either in the correct way nor the correct context for students. Sometimes we teach too late when the horse has bolted, sometimes we overload kids with information.
Sexual education is best done by parents but that's an ideal world and so there has to be back up. For me it is about sexual health and about relationships. One is on the surface very easy to teach..the other complex. However I have sat with a tutor group while the school nurse taught them about sexual health and the way she did it was so clinical as to be unnerving and I had very upset kids to deal with after that. I complained to the pastoral head and she never taught it again.
I really believe that sexual education should be taught in small group situations where they kids are encouraged to ask questions that concern them not get information thrown at them willy-nilly lol
So often we are doing damage limitation.
Sometimes we are giving information to young people not ready for it.
Now there is less if no emphasis on morals via religion, it's important to work out the needs of young people and not impose what we think they want.
It was easy when I was young...you were a slut if you "did it" before marriage and outside of marriage and chanced hellfire and getting diseased or in that home down the road for girls and babies. Nevertheless I was possibly one of just a few handful of friends who didn't "have to get married"...the advice I hung on to was "If you can't be good, be careful"...and succeeded
Now we are telling kids it's OK, it's got so complicated.
Sexual education is best done by parents but that's an ideal world and so there has to be back up. For me it is about sexual health and about relationships. One is on the surface very easy to teach..the other complex. However I have sat with a tutor group while the school nurse taught them about sexual health and the way she did it was so clinical as to be unnerving and I had very upset kids to deal with after that. I complained to the pastoral head and she never taught it again.
I really believe that sexual education should be taught in small group situations where they kids are encouraged to ask questions that concern them not get information thrown at them willy-nilly lol
So often we are doing damage limitation.
Sometimes we are giving information to young people not ready for it.
Now there is less if no emphasis on morals via religion, it's important to work out the needs of young people and not impose what we think they want.
It was easy when I was young...you were a slut if you "did it" before marriage and outside of marriage and chanced hellfire and getting diseased or in that home down the road for girls and babies. Nevertheless I was possibly one of just a few handful of friends who didn't "have to get married"...the advice I hung on to was "If you can't be good, be careful"...and succeeded
Now we are telling kids it's OK, it's got so complicated.