LadyFatima
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Forgive me, because I'm about to get on my soapbox right now, but I promise to keep my comments lady-like and rated PG. . .
So about half an hour ago, I was online just looking up random articles and websites about belly dancing and what not (because that's what I tend to do at 6am when I'm bored and can't fall back asleep:lol and I came across this one blog written a few years ago by an instructor who had been a professional dancer/teacher for about 8 or 9 years.
In her blog, she was basically blasting various apparently "self-taught" belly dancers who had been posting their private videos and performances online.Apparently these young women had at some point, proudly mentioned that they had taught themselves to belly dance without ever taking any formal classes or lessons. What bothered me was that instead of just giving constructive criticism on the technique of the self taught ladies, she gave a score of rude comments about how she just couldn't believe that anyone "could be proud of the fact that they've never taken any formal lessons in belly dancing."
It seemed like everything about these women upset her; their style, technique, choice of costume, everything. Now I've seen some of these self taught dancers and I would personally understand her point of view better if perhaps these women had been performing some sort of dressed up version of a strip tease or burlesque dance, but from what I can tell, there really wasn't anything wrong with the way they danced. . .other than the fact that they had never received any formal training.
Now in my ONLY defense for this angry instructor, I will say that I can understand if a person who has been been professionally trained in dancing dislikes the idea of a non-trained dancer performing a skill that took them years to cultivate. However, I don't think it's fair to judge a person's worthiness as a performer SOLELY on the fact that they've never received formal training.
Speaking from experience, I have been training myself in belly dancing for close to 8 months now. Never took a class, never had any one on one instruction other than watching tutorials on various techniques and just watching the performances of other dancers and imitating them. Now I wouldn't go as far to say that I'm "proud" of never being given formal lessons, but I'm certainly not ashamed of it either.
I'm a full time university student. I have a driver's license but (unfortunately) no car. I had a part-time job but I had to quit, so I'm currently unemployed. (Which means that until I find another job or save up enough money, I wouldn't be able to pay for lessons anyway).
I fully realize that there are downsides to not having formal lessons, and until the time when I can actually get professional instruction I understand that my style and technique will look somewhat "untrained." But I really and truly love and respect the art of belly dancing; it's given me a sense of dignity, spirituality, and self love that I've never experienced before. It gives me an escape from a reality that I'm not always thrilled about living in. So yeah, I get testy at the idea of someone telling me that I shouldn't be happy and proud about doing what I do. Because for me at this point, if I don't continue to self teach myself how to dance, my only other option is to sit around my bedroom and REFUSE to ever do another belly roll or hip shimmy until a certified instructor shows me how. . . (not happening)
I mean, I practice for 2-3 hours a day (give or take). I go online and read as much as I can about belly dancing so I can get a better understanding of it, I come to this (amazing) site and get advice and tips from other dancers, both professional and non-professional. I watch instructional videos, I watch videos of the legendary Egyptian dancers. . .I'm doing the best with what I can work with. I plan on eventually taking formal lessons in the future, because I want to be able to show off my refined skill and style just like the legends and modern day professional lady dancers (or the "Big Girls" as I like to call them)
But until that day comes, I will continue to practice in my room in front of my mirror, and dance my heart out; with no fear and no shame
*hops off her soapbox*
So about half an hour ago, I was online just looking up random articles and websites about belly dancing and what not (because that's what I tend to do at 6am when I'm bored and can't fall back asleep:lol and I came across this one blog written a few years ago by an instructor who had been a professional dancer/teacher for about 8 or 9 years.
In her blog, she was basically blasting various apparently "self-taught" belly dancers who had been posting their private videos and performances online.Apparently these young women had at some point, proudly mentioned that they had taught themselves to belly dance without ever taking any formal classes or lessons. What bothered me was that instead of just giving constructive criticism on the technique of the self taught ladies, she gave a score of rude comments about how she just couldn't believe that anyone "could be proud of the fact that they've never taken any formal lessons in belly dancing."
It seemed like everything about these women upset her; their style, technique, choice of costume, everything. Now I've seen some of these self taught dancers and I would personally understand her point of view better if perhaps these women had been performing some sort of dressed up version of a strip tease or burlesque dance, but from what I can tell, there really wasn't anything wrong with the way they danced. . .other than the fact that they had never received any formal training.
Now in my ONLY defense for this angry instructor, I will say that I can understand if a person who has been been professionally trained in dancing dislikes the idea of a non-trained dancer performing a skill that took them years to cultivate. However, I don't think it's fair to judge a person's worthiness as a performer SOLELY on the fact that they've never received formal training.
Speaking from experience, I have been training myself in belly dancing for close to 8 months now. Never took a class, never had any one on one instruction other than watching tutorials on various techniques and just watching the performances of other dancers and imitating them. Now I wouldn't go as far to say that I'm "proud" of never being given formal lessons, but I'm certainly not ashamed of it either.
I'm a full time university student. I have a driver's license but (unfortunately) no car. I had a part-time job but I had to quit, so I'm currently unemployed. (Which means that until I find another job or save up enough money, I wouldn't be able to pay for lessons anyway).
I fully realize that there are downsides to not having formal lessons, and until the time when I can actually get professional instruction I understand that my style and technique will look somewhat "untrained." But I really and truly love and respect the art of belly dancing; it's given me a sense of dignity, spirituality, and self love that I've never experienced before. It gives me an escape from a reality that I'm not always thrilled about living in. So yeah, I get testy at the idea of someone telling me that I shouldn't be happy and proud about doing what I do. Because for me at this point, if I don't continue to self teach myself how to dance, my only other option is to sit around my bedroom and REFUSE to ever do another belly roll or hip shimmy until a certified instructor shows me how. . . (not happening)
I mean, I practice for 2-3 hours a day (give or take). I go online and read as much as I can about belly dancing so I can get a better understanding of it, I come to this (amazing) site and get advice and tips from other dancers, both professional and non-professional. I watch instructional videos, I watch videos of the legendary Egyptian dancers. . .I'm doing the best with what I can work with. I plan on eventually taking formal lessons in the future, because I want to be able to show off my refined skill and style just like the legends and modern day professional lady dancers (or the "Big Girls" as I like to call them)
But until that day comes, I will continue to practice in my room in front of my mirror, and dance my heart out; with no fear and no shame
*hops off her soapbox*