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[Greetings all fellow belly dance enthusiasts...
I'm going to try to make my introduction as short as possible. I recently gotten taken to the cleaners in my divorce after a 10 year marriage. I haven't been out on a date since the divorce and never cheated on my husband. Before and during my marriage, I was an avid rider which kept me physically fit but I do not have access to my horses or a place to ride them right now so I started thinking about different ways to stay fit for free. I asked around and did some research and I came across belly dancing. At first I laughed but got to thinking about it and realized-it is really the perfect package for me! What else can you do that will tone you, supply you with talents to entertain friends and that special someone, have fun feeling good about being a woman, and emphasize your core which will come in handy when I start riding again. So here I am. I have scoured the web for resources and have tons of instructional videos and literature and some time on my hands.
So here is the SOS: In less than a month, a well-to-do gentleman wants to fly me out of town for the weekend. I would like to have some basic posture and balance mastered and look as lean as possible. I'm 5'7" and was 135lbs but have dropped to 130. My ideal weight when fit is 128. My problem areas are my waist: definite mommy tummy and some cellulite in back of thighs and rear. What I need from anyone who is willing to help is a efficient and productive way to utilize my resources to achieve these things. What should I be working on and in what sequence and what frequency? I will let you know that I really enjoy the yoga approach (fusion) to belly dancing and feel as though using some of Rachel Brice's stuff to warm up and cool down has been very effective in terms of loosening me up. Please give me any and all advice you have, not to so much WOW this guy (which would be nice) but having the satisfaction of knowing that I'm still desirable even if I am older. Thank you so much]
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