Suhad
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I have been dancing at a ME restaurant about 80 miles from my house periodically for the last year and a half or so. The contract (verbal, not written), no matter who has been the agent booking the dancer, says that it is for 2 15 minute shows, pay is $50 for the night ($25 per set). It's not much money but it's about the going rate for this area; they're not very generous to the musicians either so it's not just the dancers.
When there are live musicians, on Saturday nights, the sets tend to run closer to 20 minutes, which I and the other dancers are perfectly OK with as the musicians are really great to work with, and make up for the lack of pay. The clientele of this place tends not to tip for the most part; it is the rare dancer who makes more than $10 or $15 for the entire night.
The first time I danced there, they said I was going to do a 25 or 30 minute set each time and I refused, saying the deal was for 15 minutes, and that was that. I think they try that with all the new dancers.
That is the background. Here is what happened the last time I danced there:
I was called very late in the morning by the agent who was desperate to find a dancer as the scheduled dancer had called out sick. I was reluctant but agreed to do it as I was also getting over a cold. I had worked until 2 am the night before, and had to go back to bed because my brain was fried. When I woke up again I put together two sets, one 8 seconds short of 15 minutes and one 12 seconds over 15 minutes. These are probably the shortest sets I've ever put together, usually even with the 15 minute guideline in place they're more like 16 or 17. This was for two reasons: one, I chose only songs I know very well, and two, I wasn't sure I could last more than 15 minutes with my chest cold still hanging on...I'd been hitting my inhaler pretty regularly for days. Anyway, the music burning took a lot more time than I'd intended, issues with my computer. So...that left me with very little time.
I practiced, took a quick shower, and my husband drove while I changed into my costume in the car -- we ran into very heavy traffic and our cutting it to the minute became showing up 10 minutes late. It's an hour and a half drive if we don't hit any traffic. I did call the restaurant and explain the situation, and according to the person I spoke with that was fine. Of course they were pissed when I showed up even still.
So, after my first performance, I changed into my normal clothes and came out to sit with my husband and our friends. One of the waitresses came up to me and said that the owner was mad because my set wasn't long enough, and my next set 'has to be longer'. I said they're both about 15 minutes, and they're on CD, I can't change them. She repeated what she had just said. I repeated what I said, and ultimately the keyboard player played a song for me for the last song of the second set, which put it at about 20 minutes.
So the next day, the keyboard player who was there to play in between the sets called me and said that the owner said to tell me I must dance for two 30 minute sets. I politely refused and said that if this was the case then we would need to renegotiate the rate because that's double the dancing for the same rate of pay. He countered by saying 'all the other dancers do it' and I told him that was not true, I know the other dancers and I've been there to see other dancers, and they don't dance for 30 minute sets. I even told him that's crazy, that it's too much dancing for the people to watch. He just kept repeating that I needed to do it, with the implication being that if I didn't I wouldn't be allowed to dance there anymore.
I called my agent who basically will not back me up on this, because she is the new agent for this place, and is afraid of standing up for us because she 'wants a place for [her] students to dance'. She actually tried to tell me that the other dancers DO dance for 30 minute sets!! This after she's been there with me many times!
So, I spoke with my instructor who is also the instructor for several of the dancers who work there, she got quite upset and said that if they are doing 30 minute sets it's because they're being intimidated into doing it and because they don't know any better. I'm sure she will speak with her students so that is not an issue; I also spoke with the drummer who is my drum instructor and he was shocked as well, saying 30 minutes was too long to dance.
Am I just new to this whole politics thing or what? What would you experienced people do in this situation? I dance there for the experience pretty much exclusively, I don't need the money (not like I'm making any anyway, they make me pay for my dinner as well).
When there are live musicians, on Saturday nights, the sets tend to run closer to 20 minutes, which I and the other dancers are perfectly OK with as the musicians are really great to work with, and make up for the lack of pay. The clientele of this place tends not to tip for the most part; it is the rare dancer who makes more than $10 or $15 for the entire night.
The first time I danced there, they said I was going to do a 25 or 30 minute set each time and I refused, saying the deal was for 15 minutes, and that was that. I think they try that with all the new dancers.
That is the background. Here is what happened the last time I danced there:
I was called very late in the morning by the agent who was desperate to find a dancer as the scheduled dancer had called out sick. I was reluctant but agreed to do it as I was also getting over a cold. I had worked until 2 am the night before, and had to go back to bed because my brain was fried. When I woke up again I put together two sets, one 8 seconds short of 15 minutes and one 12 seconds over 15 minutes. These are probably the shortest sets I've ever put together, usually even with the 15 minute guideline in place they're more like 16 or 17. This was for two reasons: one, I chose only songs I know very well, and two, I wasn't sure I could last more than 15 minutes with my chest cold still hanging on...I'd been hitting my inhaler pretty regularly for days. Anyway, the music burning took a lot more time than I'd intended, issues with my computer. So...that left me with very little time.
I practiced, took a quick shower, and my husband drove while I changed into my costume in the car -- we ran into very heavy traffic and our cutting it to the minute became showing up 10 minutes late. It's an hour and a half drive if we don't hit any traffic. I did call the restaurant and explain the situation, and according to the person I spoke with that was fine. Of course they were pissed when I showed up even still.
So, after my first performance, I changed into my normal clothes and came out to sit with my husband and our friends. One of the waitresses came up to me and said that the owner was mad because my set wasn't long enough, and my next set 'has to be longer'. I said they're both about 15 minutes, and they're on CD, I can't change them. She repeated what she had just said. I repeated what I said, and ultimately the keyboard player played a song for me for the last song of the second set, which put it at about 20 minutes.
So the next day, the keyboard player who was there to play in between the sets called me and said that the owner said to tell me I must dance for two 30 minute sets. I politely refused and said that if this was the case then we would need to renegotiate the rate because that's double the dancing for the same rate of pay. He countered by saying 'all the other dancers do it' and I told him that was not true, I know the other dancers and I've been there to see other dancers, and they don't dance for 30 minute sets. I even told him that's crazy, that it's too much dancing for the people to watch. He just kept repeating that I needed to do it, with the implication being that if I didn't I wouldn't be allowed to dance there anymore.
I called my agent who basically will not back me up on this, because she is the new agent for this place, and is afraid of standing up for us because she 'wants a place for [her] students to dance'. She actually tried to tell me that the other dancers DO dance for 30 minute sets!! This after she's been there with me many times!
So, I spoke with my instructor who is also the instructor for several of the dancers who work there, she got quite upset and said that if they are doing 30 minute sets it's because they're being intimidated into doing it and because they don't know any better. I'm sure she will speak with her students so that is not an issue; I also spoke with the drummer who is my drum instructor and he was shocked as well, saying 30 minutes was too long to dance.
Am I just new to this whole politics thing or what? What would you experienced people do in this situation? I dance there for the experience pretty much exclusively, I don't need the money (not like I'm making any anyway, they make me pay for my dinner as well).