Tarik Sultan
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I'm not keen on 'if you're a woman you MUST like' statements... and to the same extent I would think that there are many men who feel just as grumpy about 'if you're a man you MUST like' statements....
Having said this - there is often a basis for the gender stereotypes that we refer to - it's just that they are only a stereotype, not applicable to each and every man, woman, child or geek.
Perhaps it's possible for some of us at least to treat each other as if we are human beings rather than carbon copies of some gender stereotype that we have been trained to identify with?
I hope so - and in my work in pain management at least, I hope I can have the ability to recognise that men have a softer side, women have a harder side - and all of us can appreciate good friendship!
You are so right. I spoke about this in my class yesterday. Women on stage have to be able to access their strength, emotional and psychological and express that through their bodies. They have to take up physical space, not just with their bodies, how much arm space they use, but put the energy behind it and make the emotional/psychological statement that they have a rightful place in the world and this is it! Women have been brainwashed to be seen but not heard in the world that often gets expressed in posture that is non-threatening, unassertive, passive. Women have upper body strength and muscles. Even if we look at "traditional" women's roles, It takes physical strength to carry a baby AND work in the fields. It takes upper body strength to fetch water, fire wood, wash clothes. Are you kidding me? try doing any of that stuff with butter muscles! Elite women were the ones who were supposed to sit and manage servants not get dirt under their nails and so we've all been brainwashed to strive for that ideal.... and die from osteoporosis from the lack of exercise. Life is so much better for everyone when we can realize so much of what we are expected to do and be is a load of crap and we are better off giving the toilet a good flush!