Aisha Azar
New member
Dance, etc.
Dear Pirika,
Dear Pirika,
When you are not expect to something happen, then some good things happen, people react screaming. I mean not only man or woman take off cloths or something, but anything. For instance, in quiz show a host/hostess announce price with dramatic drum sound and open the curtain, then see brand new car! Of cause people screaming and this is natural human reaction. If some unexpected things happen people react this way. [/QUOTE
What, exactly did you see as unexpected here? They had clothes on under their bisht. I don;t see what was so special about that. And yes, you are correct taht we ARE being trained to oever react to any kind fo stimulus!
When I see this video I thought it’s good dance because of they were male dancers? NO. If this video is all female do the same way, I feel the same. Now a lot of dance competition shows n TV, and I enjoy to watch them. However, when I see “America’s Best Dance Crew” on MTV, I cheer more minority group which mean all female, all Asians, mix of male, female, and mixed race group, because they are minority for Hip-Hop dance, and I want to see all different kinds of people dance for any form of dances. Don’t get me wrong, if dancers are sucks, I don’t cheer them, and I don’t say they are good because they are minority or some other reasons.
Why do you cheer more for the minority group? Gender, race, color, creed all have nothing to do with talent in the long run.
No offense to anybody, but I see many dancers who perform on stage, at the restaurants, or clubs are sometimes not that good. But I’m pretty sure they feel they are good! I think who is good or who is not that good is many times audience to decide. Like I said before, my girl friend believes Nourhan is the best dancer in the world for her! But I’m not crazy about Nourhan. Yes, she is great dancer, but not my type of dancer. The same thing for other dancers, who is good and who is not, or who is threatening or other things are sometimes audience to decide not dancers.
Yes, there are a lot of bad dancers out there. I happen to like Nourhan's dancing, but for me she is also not the best dancer in the world. I am not even sure there IS a best dancer in the world. I will say that some students develop a sort of hero worship for their instructors. I try to teach my own sutdents to think of me the same way they would any other kind of teacher, and to realize that I am one among many who can further their education. Students need to keep their eyes on the prize, which is to become the best dancer they can be and to learn from all who offer something good.
I never feel threatened by male dancers, and I never feel male dancers get special treatment or attention than female dancers in Oriental Dance. I rather respect male Oriental dancers and I want to see more male dancers to break stupid stereo type of Oriental Dance is only for women.
I never feel threatened by male dancers on a personal level either, but I DO feel that the dance is threatened when we give them special treatment just because they are males, and this is beginning to happen worse than ever before as more men come on the scene. This video is typical. If it had been females, we would all wonder what they were trying to accomplish and I think that many, many people on this forum know this is true, whether or not they will admit it. I respect no dancer just because of their gender, and have no less respect for good male dancers than I do good female dancers. You are new here and have no way of knowing how much time and effort I have invested in the past, in supporting male dancers.
Regards,
A'isha