BellyDance Girl
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After a few days of conversation and therapy, I dare say that I may have over-reacted, and didn't give my boyfriend much room or choice after I had the pre-conceived notion that he wasn't going to like my dance. Because of my past, I know and have realized that I can be very guarded and judgmental at times. Perhaps this is one of those times. The first part of the details are posted on my blog. I will continue on my blog after I do some personal stuff for work ...
a big THANK YOU to all who have replied to my last forum topic in 'Other Dance Stuff" - 'Embarrassed as well as angry. I gained much insight from all of you, and would welcome any opinions/advice you may have, the more honest the better. After reading my background and reason for sudden assumptions, please let me know if you think I'm just kidding myself and making excuses ... or if I'm gaining some growth or insight. Because of a horrific event that happened with a former 'boyfriend,' it is possible that I assume things that are unfounded, or have occurred with him, or do I now have a more acute insight in detecting who is good for me?
a big THANK YOU to all who have replied to my last forum topic in 'Other Dance Stuff" - 'Embarrassed as well as angry. I gained much insight from all of you, and would welcome any opinions/advice you may have, the more honest the better. After reading my background and reason for sudden assumptions, please let me know if you think I'm just kidding myself and making excuses ... or if I'm gaining some growth or insight. Because of a horrific event that happened with a former 'boyfriend,' it is possible that I assume things that are unfounded, or have occurred with him, or do I now have a more acute insight in detecting who is good for me?