Helping students defeat the stereotypes?

KhezlaDurr33

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I made my own. My favorite patterns were hacked versions of a long-sleeved, straight dress or nightgown with or without slit(s) up the side(s). The nightgown pattern was nice because it had extra looseness in the scye that allowed for moving my arms overhead without hiking up the entire dress. Adding underarm gussets also worked, as did leaving the seam between underarm and sleeve open.
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Tourbeau

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I once helped organize an event at a local school where my dance teacher at the time gave a folkloric presentation about traditional Egyptian music and dance to the fifth graders. We're talking about a woman in her 50's in a full folkloric costume (with extra harem pants underneath!) doing a cymbal piece and a cane dance. No bare body. No sexy writhing around on the floor. No peek-a-boo veil unwrapping.

The kids enjoyed it. One teacher thought it was great. The other teacher had a difficult time containing her horror at the atrocious indecencies she'd been forced to endure. As far as I know, parents were notified in advance and none complained before or after, but needless to say, the event was not repeated.

Some people...
 

Tourbeau

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KhezlaDurr33 said:
BTW what is your best recommended source for a baladi dress such as you wore to teach that class?
You might also investigate the "passion play" costumes at the back of the mainstream pattern companies' books. YMMV, but if you're looking to make a plain (woven) thobe, some of them aren't bad, especially if you can pick up the patterns when they are on sale for a few dollars instead of full price.

I've even seen a couple of dress patterns in the evening gown/wedding section that could be adapted to a glam-style baladi dress (ones without boning that use stretch fabric, and are pieced in a way that sections could be replaced with sheer stretch inserts, or have skirt seams that can be converted to slits). With the right fabric, you wouldn't even have to do too much glitz work on top.
 

KhezlaDurr33

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I once helped organize an event at a local school where my dance teacher at the time gave a folkloric presentation about traditional Egyptian music and dance to the fifth graders. We're talking about a woman in her 50's in a full folkloric costume (with extra harem pants underneath!) doing a cymbal piece and a cane dance. No bare body. No sexy writhing around on the floor. No peek-a-boo veil unwrapping.

The kids enjoyed it. One teacher thought it was great. The other teacher had a difficult time containing her horror at the atrocious indecencies she'd been forced to endure. As far as I know, parents were notified in advance and none complained before or after, but needless to say, the event was not repeated.

Some people...
I don't know what year this happened, but there has been a lot of bigotry in the past 15 years, which unfortunately is getting institutionalized and impacting arts and cultural activities. Some parents react to cultural appreciation such as that mentioned above, as if it were a possible attempt to convert their children to a different religion (you know the one I mean) -- but they use the euphemism of "indecent" in a feeble attempt to disguise their Archie Bunker-ness. I wistfully remember "the old days" when everyone was eager to share something of their culture and learn about others'. The middle easterners gave such great parties, were so appreciative of my dancing. Now ppl are suspicious, nobody likes anybody, no more parties. :-(
 

Tourbeau

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KhezlaDurr33 said:
I don't know what year this happened, but there has been a lot of bigotry in the past 15 years...
This would have been about 15 years ago, and it was a Catholic school, so it would have been a pretty nervy move to roll in with the plan of forcibly converting everybody by the...sagat and assaya? Because if there's one thing that the sort of people who embrace an overbearing, aggressive, hardline version of Islam love, it's...music and dancing?

No, I think the second teacher just had it in her head that what she was seeing was inappropriate and dirty, no matter what was put in front of her (and she was the social studies teacher).
 

Shanazel

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that what she was seeing was inappropriate and dirty

This, I think, was the problem I ran into. Save Our Children: local school system implicated in teaching exotic dancing. Suspected ties to titty bars and strip clubs.
 

Zorba

"The Veiled Male"
I danced for a senior's luncheon at a church, of all places. There ended up being an article about it in the local paper, seems there were some who were "concerned", but everybody except one stuck up Red Hatter loved me, my performance, and had a very good time. In fact, they liked me so much that they invited me back 6 months later for "round 2". They loved the Shemadan performance.
 

Greek Bonfire

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One of my major concerns is that I live alone and some weirdos would sit on my doorstep asking me to come out and dance <head bang>
 

Greek Bonfire

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I once helped organize an event at a local school where my dance teacher at the time gave a folkloric presentation about traditional Egyptian music and dance to the fifth graders. We're talking about a woman in her 50's in a full folkloric costume (with extra harem pants underneath!) doing a cymbal piece and a cane dance. No bare body. No sexy writhing around on the floor. No peek-a-boo veil unwrapping.

The kids enjoyed it. One teacher thought it was great. The other teacher had a difficult time containing her horror at the atrocious indecencies she'd been forced to endure. As far as I know, parents were notified in advance and none complained before or after, but needless to say, the event was not repeated.

Some people...
That reminds me of my early days where I was still in student recitals. There was an outcry by a few people that bellydance should not be allowed in the recitals; however, it seemed that most people were all for it because I was the first dancer out there, and some tight lipped ladies made a point of walking out before I started. The irony of the whole thing is that the place was packed so tightly and with families of all backgrounds. I and my other co-dancers felt very supported.
 

Shanazel

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One of my major concerns is that I live alone and some weirdos would sit on my doorstep asking me to come out and dance <head bang>
Back in my early days of public performance, I attracted the attention of what would now be called a stalker. Scary damn stuff to look out the window and see him sitting across the street in a truck or having him approach me in public to announce he knew my phone number, my license plate number, etc. He was the husband of a friend, which made it even worse. The problem ended when I moved out of town and left no forwarding address with anyone.
 

Greek Bonfire

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Back in my early days of public performance, I attracted the attention of what would now be called a stalker. Scary damn stuff to look out the window and see him sitting across the street in a truck or having him approach me in public to announce he knew my phone number, my license plate number, etc. He was the husband of a friend, which made it even worse. The problem ended when I moved out of town and left no forwarding address with anyone.
That's very scary. I actually ran into more stalking problems with people I worked with in "respectable" office settings.
 
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