Ariadne
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How funny, one person tries to tell me it has nothing to do with feminism and now someone else is defending it as just fine. :lol:
I will say I am becoming curious about the feminist movements in the UK and New Zealand now. It could be an interesting study to see the differences.
Except that is not what I am speaking of. This isn't a case of a man who would rather stay at home and raise the kids and a woman who would rather go to work, the mothers want to be home with their kids. Their husbands just don't see the point in bothering to work and their wives are pressured into going and getting a job instead.Why shouldn't they? Staying at home to raise a family/keep house is work, hard work, right? Why is a man who chooses to stay at home while his wife works outside the home - she might like working, some women do - so vile yet a woman who says exactly those same things a victim of the mean feminists?
:lol: Wow, "let me". Isn't that the sort of phrases that are supposed to be erased by this "liberation"? He doesn't "let me". We have a partnership and we have BOTH decided that this is what I will do. In fact because I wanted to stay home and raise my kids I looked for a man who would feel the same way. "Let me!" :lol:As for equal pay. You are very lucky; you have a husband who is willing to let you stay at home and who supports you financially.
Yeah, I hear that but I also hear from the people I know that do it that economically it's really about priorities. What is more important to you, the money or the family? In my experience (again here in the US) the desire to know is based on a social assumption that a woman "belongs" in the workforce or they aren't "working". It's just as bad as saying they "belong" in the kitchen only in reverse.In my experience people want to know when women are going back to work because most people cannot afford their lifestyle with only one income. I don't know anybody in a marriage-type deal where that is not an economic necessity long-term. It's not about not valuing at-home parentood.
I will say I am becoming curious about the feminist movements in the UK and New Zealand now. It could be an interesting study to see the differences.