Zorba
"The Veiled Male"
When I meet a woman for the first time like Zorba, my eyes connect with jewellery and often it is the jewellery that attracts me, as sometimes I make jewellery then to me naturally I will be attracted to it, usually working out how it was made in my head and conversation starters are usually about it and that is about as far as it gets as I have been accused of not taking interest in the past when signals were being put out, but that's the ASD, it 's not that I am not attracted, it is that I don't understand the signals and what response there should be.
So women are safe with me, some come to find that out for themselves but others are wary and I do understand why, and I do not blame them.
Pretty much. I almost never hear/understand "the signals" either. As an Aspie, I'm pretty clueless to such things. It has to be BLATANT. My wife will often tell me, "Did you know so-and-so was hitting on you?". Nope - not a clue. I'm just not interested - I guess many/most guys look for, or are attuned to, such "signals". I'm not.
If "the signals" are BLATANT enough for me to figure it out - I am *SO* outta there! This would be the "Feral Woman" behavior previously mentioned. Fortunately, I generally feel very safe among my dance sisters. I've found its often better for me to stay with my dance sisters than it is to mingle at a GP event.
My wife and I discussed this subject last nite. She reports that she hasn't had a whole lot of problem in the area - one male co-worker once told her that she puts out a "I'm married, leave me alone" vibe.
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